You get into an argument or confrontation with some people. You have a couple options.

Option 1. Engage in the argument, and defend yourself by putting the blame on the other person.

Option 2. Engage in the argument, and defend youself with your honest beliefs, feelings, and system of logic.

Option 3. Engage in the argument, and let the other person be a shit head, while you contiue to be passive, by refusing to argue back, and just say, "I'm not going to argue with you.... It's pointless to defend myself with reasoning, and concepts that you will not understand, yet alone yield to."

Option 4. Don't even bother explaining to the person you are argueing with that they will not "get you" and leave the arguement without explanation.

Option 5. Say sorry, because you don't feel like argueing.

Option 6. Say sorry, and mean it.

Pick option one, and you are a heartless bitch. Pick option two, and then you are accused of trying to make the solar sytem revolve around you. Pick option three, and not only are you being self centered, but you are being shady, and finding a reason to run away from said arguement. Pick number four, and you are automatically labeled as wrong. Pick option five, then you let yourself get stepped on, and admit defeat, even though you still feel lyou are in the right. Pick option six, and sincerely admit defeat. This is the probably the least used one.

Either way, you're fucked.